Step 10
We continued to take personal inventory and when we were wrong promptly admitted it.
What it means
A short daily check, not a nightly trial.
How abandonment distorts it
Daily inventory becomes daily prosecution if I let it.
In this marriage
Where did I pursue today? Where did I hold a boundary? Both get recorded, neutrally.
Inside me
The evening review is this step. Eight lines. Keep it fast.
Do not do this for 0 minutes
- Prompt admission, not endless review. If it is taking more than ten minutes, it has stopped being inventory.
Behavioral exercise
- Do the evening review for seven days. Missing one is not a failure; it is a day not logged.